Oh, February. The Month of love. And it’s a short month. So, I’m going to make this a short blog post. This Month has taught me 3 things. How to communicate my wants, needs, and feelings more effectively. How to trust and allow myself to be vulnerable again. How to go after my goals andContinue reading “February 28th, 2022- Month 10”
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December 18th, 2021
Hello Friends. It’s been a long time. I’m officially 8 months in from deciding to separate from my husband. It’s been quite a journey. This month I’m going to talk about my relationship status. That’s right, your girl has met someone. That moment you change your Facebook relationship status, your whole life changes. I madeContinue reading “December 18th, 2021”
November 10th, 2021
It’s now been 7 months since I decided to separate from my husband. Last month would have been 11 years married. Surprisingly, that day came and passed with very little feelings at all. No one goes into a marriage expecting it to fail, but some marriages are not meant to last. ***Caution*** If you orContinue reading “November 10th, 2021”
September 11th, 2021
Transitions It’s been 13 years since my last tattoo. I’ve always been the type of person to put a lot of thought and research into what I put on my body. I mean, it’s permanent. It can’t just be anything and it has to be unique. So, why today? The truth is, I didn’t chooseContinue reading “September 11th, 2021”
July 29th, 2021
Disappointments Part 2of2 The Beach Trip My 2 daughters and my 16-year old’s best friend took a short girl’s trip to the beach a week ago. Of course, this trip was not without any issues. Story of my life. We stopped for breakfast on the way. The lady at the drive-thru handed me our drinksContinue reading “July 29th, 2021”
July 25th, 2021
Disappointments Part 1 of 2 I wish I could say it was an uneventful few weeks, but I guess I’m just not that lucky. It all started with my girls returning home from visiting family for the Summer. I picked my oldest daughter up from the Airport. The next day I was supposed to meetContinue reading “July 25th, 2021”
July 10th, 2021
Be Active Not Reactive It has taken me almost three weeks to write this blog post. I’ve typed the post three times and each time I deleted it. I’m currently struggling with self-blame. I’ve been working with my therapist on it. She tells me that I need to learn to have self-compassion. She keeps tellingContinue reading “July 10th, 2021”
June 20th, 2021
Today my husband stopped by to drop his keys and garage door opener off. It’s official, every drop of him has left the house. How am I handling it do you ask? I keep waiting for the second grieving wave to hit me. Like it did Memorial Day weekend when he took our daughter toContinue reading “June 20th, 2021”
June 9th, 2010
My new found independence it’s both exhilarating and exhausting. Who knew that mowing the lawn could be so painful. My backyard alone is approximately .30 acres. And somehow I managed to break the riding lawnmower that we had when I asked my husband to show me how to use it. I was trucking along andContinue reading “June 9th, 2010”
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Have you ever gone through a marriage separation? Did you know that in the State of N.C. it takes 12 months before you can file for divorce? It doesn’t matter the circumstances. Maybe there was betrayal, infidelity, trauma, abuse, maybe you were just unhappy, maybe it was amicable. Maybe like me, you spent all yourContinue reading “About this Blog:”
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