Well…. I have officially made it to 12 months of healing. The journey has been a roller coaster. I never imagined I’d come so far so quickly. For anyone just joining my journey, last year I found out that my husband of 10 years was having an emotional affair (and possibly even more) with aContinue reading “May 4th, 2022- Month 12”
Category Archives: Divorce
March 30th, 2022
Month 11 Hey friends!!! This month has been difficult. I still have quite a bit of anger and bitterness built up inside of me that I need to let go of if I’m going to truly heal. “Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. DoContinue reading “March 30th, 2022”
January 31st, 2022
I am not the Woman that has it all together. Even after 9 Months, the scars, the memories, the trauma is still fresh in my mind. Sometimes it takes me several days to write these posts. Sometimes I have to shut the laptop and walk away. But what I’ve learned is that I have support.Continue reading “January 31st, 2022”
November 10th, 2021
It’s now been 7 months since I decided to separate from my husband. Last month would have been 11 years married. Surprisingly, that day came and passed with very little feelings at all. No one goes into a marriage expecting it to fail, but some marriages are not meant to last. ***Caution*** If you orContinue reading “November 10th, 2021”
8/9/2021
Putting it into practice “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Albert Einstein What have I learned since my last post? During my last therapy session, my Therapist and I discussed why it is I keep finding myself in unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships. She shared with me aContinue reading “8/9/2021”
May 27th, 2021
Final Separation Almost one month from the date I found out my husband was continuing his relationship with the woman that was causing strife in our marriage, we were signing our separation agreement document. Thankfully, we were able to come to a mutual agreement on how to separate our lives, time with our child, andContinue reading “May 27th, 2021”
About this Blog:
Have you ever gone through a marriage separation? Did you know that in the State of N.C. it takes 12 months before you can file for divorce? It doesn’t matter the circumstances. Maybe there was betrayal, infidelity, trauma, abuse, maybe you were just unhappy, maybe it was amicable. Maybe like me, you spent all yourContinue reading “About this Blog:”
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