Disappointments Part 1 of 2 I wish I could say it was an uneventful few weeks, but I guess I’m just not that lucky. It all started with my girls returning home from visiting family for the Summer. I picked my oldest daughter up from the Airport. The next day I was supposed to meetContinue reading “July 25th, 2021”
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July 10th, 2021
Be Active Not Reactive It has taken me almost three weeks to write this blog post. I’ve typed the post three times and each time I deleted it. I’m currently struggling with self-blame. I’ve been working with my therapist on it. She tells me that I need to learn to have self-compassion. She keeps tellingContinue reading “July 10th, 2021”
June 20th, 2021
Today my husband stopped by to drop his keys and garage door opener off. It’s official, every drop of him has left the house. How am I handling it do you ask? I keep waiting for the second grieving wave to hit me. Like it did Memorial Day weekend when he took our daughter toContinue reading “June 20th, 2021”
May 27th, 2021
Final Separation Almost one month from the date I found out my husband was continuing his relationship with the woman that was causing strife in our marriage, we were signing our separation agreement document. Thankfully, we were able to come to a mutual agreement on how to separate our lives, time with our child, andContinue reading “May 27th, 2021”
June 9th, 2010
My new found independence it’s both exhilarating and exhausting. Who knew that mowing the lawn could be so painful. My backyard alone is approximately .30 acres. And somehow I managed to break the riding lawnmower that we had when I asked my husband to show me how to use it. I was trucking along andContinue reading “June 9th, 2010”
April 28th, 2021
The Betrayal This is the day that will be etched in my mind for the rest of my life. I fought so hard to save my marriage. But that day, was the day I said, “I just can’t do this anymore”. You see my husband of 10 years was having an emotional affair with aContinue reading “April 28th, 2021”
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Have you ever gone through a marriage separation? Did you know that in the State of N.C. it takes 12 months before you can file for divorce? It doesn’t matter the circumstances. Maybe there was betrayal, infidelity, trauma, abuse, maybe you were just unhappy, maybe it was amicable. Maybe like me, you spent all yourContinue reading “About this Blog:”
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