Well…. I have officially made it to 12 months of healing. The journey has been a roller coaster. I never imagined I’d come so far so quickly. For anyone just joining my journey, last year I found out that my husband of 10 years was having an emotional affair (and possibly even more) with aContinue reading “May 4th, 2022- Month 12”
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March 30th, 2022
Month 11 Hey friends!!! This month has been difficult. I still have quite a bit of anger and bitterness built up inside of me that I need to let go of if I’m going to truly heal. “Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. DoContinue reading “March 30th, 2022”
February 28th, 2022- Month 10
Oh, February. The Month of love. And it’s a short month. So, I’m going to make this a short blog post. This Month has taught me 3 things. How to communicate my wants, needs, and feelings more effectively. How to trust and allow myself to be vulnerable again. How to go after my goals andContinue reading “February 28th, 2022- Month 10”
January 31st, 2022
I am not the Woman that has it all together. Even after 9 Months, the scars, the memories, the trauma is still fresh in my mind. Sometimes it takes me several days to write these posts. Sometimes I have to shut the laptop and walk away. But what I’ve learned is that I have support.Continue reading “January 31st, 2022”
December 18th, 2021
Hello Friends. It’s been a long time. I’m officially 8 months in from deciding to separate from my husband. It’s been quite a journey. This month I’m going to talk about my relationship status. That’s right, your girl has met someone. That moment you change your Facebook relationship status, your whole life changes. I madeContinue reading “December 18th, 2021”
November 10th, 2021
It’s now been 7 months since I decided to separate from my husband. Last month would have been 11 years married. Surprisingly, that day came and passed with very little feelings at all. No one goes into a marriage expecting it to fail, but some marriages are not meant to last. ***Caution*** If you orContinue reading “November 10th, 2021”
October 4th, 2021
Consistency Just like always, my ex has once again outdone himself with the special occasions. He was always great at remembering special dates, picking the right card, treats, etc. He really knew how to make me feel special on a special day. If only he put that much effort into ordinary days. Here it isContinue reading “October 4th, 2021”
September 11th, 2021
Transitions It’s been 13 years since my last tattoo. I’ve always been the type of person to put a lot of thought and research into what I put on my body. I mean, it’s permanent. It can’t just be anything and it has to be unique. So, why today? The truth is, I didn’t chooseContinue reading “September 11th, 2021”
8/9/2021
Putting it into practice “Insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.” Albert Einstein What have I learned since my last post? During my last therapy session, my Therapist and I discussed why it is I keep finding myself in unhealthy and unfulfilling relationships. She shared with me aContinue reading “8/9/2021”
July 29th, 2021
Disappointments Part 2of2 The Beach Trip My 2 daughters and my 16-year old’s best friend took a short girl’s trip to the beach a week ago. Of course, this trip was not without any issues. Story of my life. We stopped for breakfast on the way. The lady at the drive-thru handed me our drinksContinue reading “July 29th, 2021”
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